I am used to staying this way .... I just do not think it will work as it has never happened....Its been this way always and I cannot just change it... What will people say....It was meant to be ....I was good but the other did not understand....and the list is endless to IF'S AND BUT'S!!!
Are we not surrounded at times by these questions and many many more which are Bubbles in a Comic series and they just burst off coz we react to the Known and do not Risk the unknown....and its been smooth but MOST DANGEROUS(It is!) it Remains the Same as ever before....Calculated and so Sailed through Calm waters even if the Outcome was not so Happy. How can one give more importance to the WORLD AROUND and not the WORLD WITHIN.....Scary to the core to me....
Everyone wants Happiness and everybody is in the Same Ocean of Life...We all are sailing in it .....Either choose to temporarily repair your boats to Sail but Fail in the Long run and repair it again and again to damage it beyond repair....
OR BETTER AND BEST ...Change your Thought Process to be Flexible and Positive so that The Boat is Stronger and will Fight the winds for a Long Happy Time... Even the direction of the Sail needs to be flexible and your positive determination to Go stronger will finally Sail you through...
A lot may question ...Its easy said than done...I would say to those Less adventurous then... Is there any side effects if one does something even if it is DIFFERENT than before to keep one Happy? No not at all … Infact one becomes so Happy go Lucky that everything works so beautiful around you. It’s no joke …its serious …CAN I JUST SAY…TRY ONCE TO THINK HAPPY …IT’S CONTAGIOUS…
There are all sorts of people in Life... can you get to know all of them... NO right? So whatever you are today is an Outcome of the people who you always knew from your Childhood to today.
Reasons that I understand for this behaviour-
1) Fear of People- Nobody can read your Heart better than you…Frankly not even your near and dear ones. Obviously you should not do anything that can hurt them if they have preconceived notions but you can find a midway
2) Your Brain is Mapped and you do not know the Outside of this Cocoon- You have to take a foot forward to start walking
3)Maybe I know but I am scared to Change the Past ...- You may have gone wrong lot many times but you have known that you wanted to reach the Best …So Move on…
4)WORST STILL you are Stubborn saying... I will not Change it ... Its my wish....- Don’t be Rigid …It does no good infact you fall down crumbling. It’s like asking the Moon to come in the morning for you. How can you expect Happiness to be there if you have a Hard Heart….
5)MOST DANGEROUS is Let time come we shall see- This is The Funny Part now. You want Happiness and you are sitting and doing nothing to get it. Its not going to Walk past you. It is within you and who else but you yourself have to find it and Use it.
The Power of Positivity , Flexiblilty and finally Happiness is in the CHANGE it Brings and IT'S WORTH IT!!!
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