THE 4TH ANGLE - UNKNOWN AS A BARTENDER….

This morning as I woke up, I felt a strange sense of emptiness in me. It was unknown to me why I was feeling this way but it was so predominantly present in my thoughts.

As I looked into the mails I came across an article that caught my immediate attention and I got my answer to the Emptiness within me !

 The Article said-

 “TALK TO YOUR BARTENDER …..” and I Strongly believe that  anything related with ALCOHOL  IS ADDICTIVE- ;-) ROFL !!!!-

The Lesson I  have learned  from the Article is that sometimes we have to believe that there is someone out there who is God Sent and without your knowing will give you answers to your problems. When this happens to you, do not forget to Believe in the Miracles of  God and that he knows us better than we would ever know ourselves...

Here it goes-

EVER SINCE I WAS A CHILD, I'VE ALWAYS HAD A FEAR OF SOMEONE UNDER MY BED AT NIGHT.

SO I WENT TO A DOCTOR AND TOLD HIM . . . 'I've got problems. Every time I go to bed I think there's somebody under it. I'm scared. I think I'm going crazy..'

'Just put yourself in my hands for one year,' said the doctor.

'Come talk to me three times a week and we should be able to get rid of those fears.'

'How much do you charge?'

'Eighty dollars per visit,' replied the doctor.

'I'll sleep on it,' I said.

Six months later the doctor met me on the street. 'Why didn't you ever come to see me about those fears you were having?' he asked.

'Well, eighty bucks a visit three times a week for a year is an awful lot of money! A bartender cured me for $10. I was so happy to have saved all that money that I went and bought me a new pickup!'

'Is that so!' With a bit of an attitude he said, 'and how, may I ask, did a bartender cure you?'

'He told me to cut the legs off the bed! - Ain't nobody under there now ! ! ! '

YOUR BARTENDER MAY BE EVEN A CHILD SO , GO HAVE A DRINK & TALK TO YOUR VERY OWN BARTENDER  BECAUSE THE 4^TH ANGLE COMES FROM THE UNKNOWN! 

HAPPY SEARCHING FOLKS!!! :-D

Maturity...

Yes we are in Kalyug….Everything around us is happening and growing in leaps and bounds. It is beyond human imagination yet we are deciphering the unknown technologies and people are going crazier day by day. The bits and pieces of technology are happy making things Smaller and Smaller. I say bits and pieces coz they are sometimes even smaller than our own hands can use and you need to use another piece to make it work . The irony is that the smaller , the more costlier. Its just the opposite for Money. The More money, the more Grandeur and respect in society.

So lets think ,

1)    Does maturity come with Money?

2)  D oes Maturity Come with Age as one has had various  Experiences in life ?

3) Does Maturity  have a real life definition for every individuals own circumstances ?

Lets say Maturity Comes with Money. If we have ample amount of money we can get things done as per our whims and fancies. We can see and have the best of everything that we desire of and even people who we meet in society are well to do mature people . We can have the best of education and can be brilliant students. Oh there is so much that one can do with money. Right ? I have here to say … Not really Right… Even the best of everything is a failure if there is no knowledge of pain and suffering . God Bless if there is in the very few and one does realize and share their wealth for the needy. But at the end of it can we really justify that money will bring maturity?

Now lets say Maturity comes with Age.  More justifiable is this by many. We hear statements like, Oh he /she is Old enough to understand, or this one is more sad to hear- He/She ought to know at this age. How can we say such things when we do not really know what is the actual reason why the other person may not be knowing it. Its as simple to question a Layman to be a Doctor ! One may have aged, have had various experiences but does not mean it brings in the maturity.

Lets take the answer to the third question. Ask a small poor child who is working to earn a living for the family. Compare the thoughts with the thoughts of the same age child from a higher strata of society. Fairly enough both children may not know how to share their feelings but the poor child will certainly value the things more than the rich child. The same value may not be there in a person even at an age of 50 . Also it is often seen that when a person has seen so much one resorts to being Childish. Simply because they know it’s the best way to be happy and accept the others as they are. Only when one has a clear perception that whatever one will do and whatever the consequences may result in, it was a decision taken by self and no one can be blamed for it, that real Maturity triumphs.

We have no real answers and they may differ from one individual to another but the real truth lies in accepting the weakness and strengths of those who we come across and simply doing what best at that moment would bring peace around will be an act of Maturity . As the wordings go- Take advices from all you feel will be good to give and follow your own Hearts Positive and Good Advice. This way neither will you blame anyone and nor will you create disharmony. Well I gave my advice… You decide yours …. God Bless!