Maturity...

Yes we are in Kalyug….Everything around us is happening and growing in leaps and bounds. It is beyond human imagination yet we are deciphering the unknown technologies and people are going crazier day by day. The bits and pieces of technology are happy making things Smaller and Smaller. I say bits and pieces coz they are sometimes even smaller than our own hands can use and you need to use another piece to make it work . The irony is that the smaller , the more costlier. Its just the opposite for Money. The More money, the more Grandeur and respect in society.

So lets think ,

1)    Does maturity come with Money?

2)  D oes Maturity Come with Age as one has had various  Experiences in life ?

3) Does Maturity  have a real life definition for every individuals own circumstances ?

Lets say Maturity Comes with Money. If we have ample amount of money we can get things done as per our whims and fancies. We can see and have the best of everything that we desire of and even people who we meet in society are well to do mature people . We can have the best of education and can be brilliant students. Oh there is so much that one can do with money. Right ? I have here to say … Not really Right… Even the best of everything is a failure if there is no knowledge of pain and suffering . God Bless if there is in the very few and one does realize and share their wealth for the needy. But at the end of it can we really justify that money will bring maturity?

Now lets say Maturity comes with Age.  More justifiable is this by many. We hear statements like, Oh he /she is Old enough to understand, or this one is more sad to hear- He/She ought to know at this age. How can we say such things when we do not really know what is the actual reason why the other person may not be knowing it. Its as simple to question a Layman to be a Doctor ! One may have aged, have had various experiences but does not mean it brings in the maturity.

Lets take the answer to the third question. Ask a small poor child who is working to earn a living for the family. Compare the thoughts with the thoughts of the same age child from a higher strata of society. Fairly enough both children may not know how to share their feelings but the poor child will certainly value the things more than the rich child. The same value may not be there in a person even at an age of 50 . Also it is often seen that when a person has seen so much one resorts to being Childish. Simply because they know it’s the best way to be happy and accept the others as they are. Only when one has a clear perception that whatever one will do and whatever the consequences may result in, it was a decision taken by self and no one can be blamed for it, that real Maturity triumphs.

We have no real answers and they may differ from one individual to another but the real truth lies in accepting the weakness and strengths of those who we come across and simply doing what best at that moment would bring peace around will be an act of Maturity . As the wordings go- Take advices from all you feel will be good to give and follow your own Hearts Positive and Good Advice. This way neither will you blame anyone and nor will you create disharmony. Well I gave my advice… You decide yours …. God Bless!